Things I say to my besties

"stop blamin' yourself so much. accept who you are. and remember he's not your past. he's your present and future, at the moment."


"i have this thought. it may be wrong. this might come off as rude, but are you blaming others of your loneliness? it took me a bit to figure this out, but maybe you just need a kind push. you are only lonely if you want to be. if you don't want to be lonely then don't desert yourself. become a best friend with yourself, more than a best friend with yourself. become your own lover (in a since...not to be weird and nasty about it). in the time i spent like i felt lonely and deserted by all, i found that i had myself. and if i didn't like spending time with me, then that's just wrong. how can someone else have a good time with you when you can't have a good time with yourself? great periods of loneliness will occur, even when i have family and a husband, i have felt quite alone. which happened a couple times in the last few months."

Short Story...

The time has come when I must write a story.  A story about absolutely nothing significant in my life.  A story that is so uneventful it will end suddenly.  The End.

Just Thinking....

Anger.

It hurts, not only the one that is angry, but can also hurt others.

Anger always has victims.

Never should you try to solve a problem through anger, you will get nowhere.

First calm down and relax.

Not everything is going to go your way.

You have hit a road block.

So take your time to figure a way around, through, under, or above it.

We want instant acting, but that is not the way it ought to be.

Time…

It is forever, but limited.

Take your time, stay slow.

Fast moving will get you nowhere when you abuse it.

If you can see the ending clearly, then act on it.

If you are wary, then slow down, ask for directions, think this through.

Always be understanding, but cautious.

Never avoid apologizing; say it and show it.

Don’t sacrifice yourself if it’ll destroy you; but sacrifice yourself when you can help build someone else up too.

Selfish acts suck; selfless acts are ok.

Don’t always be selfish; always think of other first; but don’t forget yourself.

Include yourself, but not as the center, but a spoke in the wheel; a supporter.

You are you; better and worse than another. But they are they.

No one is perfect. No life is perfect. No love is perfect. Imperfection is perfect.

First Blog Ever

I am here now, typing a blog for a class.  This is my first blog ever.
I have never been interested in blogging, so this might be my first and only attempt at this.

If we meet again, I will not know until we do.